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Haruto. H-how do we feel about threesomes and foursomes?

I love you dearly and no one else can replace you, but I have a line of people waiting to sleep with me, amd I want you to enjoy yourself too.

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Queries of such a nature from him are harmless, I assure you. Had you truly offered no interest, Tyki would delight in teasing, yet not insist.

I realize your inexperience might hinder you, yet I am afraid to offer relevant advice might be ... overstepping my bounds as a mere acquaintance to your self. Nor would I presume to have the right to issue advice on any manner of personal relations.

Any advice on this matter would be appreciated. I really have no idea what I'm doing here, and I'm afraid I've hurt my boyfriend in some way.

I shall begin by outlying the following fact: I know little of you, as I know little of your own close associate whom you have offended.

Yet, to be quite blunt, you have indeed wounded him deeply.

When an, for lack of a better word, agreement between two individuals begins with the associations of trust and exclusivity, the sudden implication of sharing such intimacy without a discussion of such trust before hand is hasty at best, and rashly heartless at worst.

The implication you have made makes the situation far worse. It is not his concerns or entries which have motivated you. Nor is it your own desires and needs. Rather, it is the influences of outsiders - strangers to this boy - who have influenced your actions. You imply a passive agreement to their advances, as if their wills overpower your significant others'. He may feel his desires are inferior, if you are so persuaded by those strange to him.

I am not well with giving advice. And such is a field of perhaps the least experience I have dealt within.

I'm so sorry... I never meant to hurt him.

Nor, does it seem, you had taken his own interests into consideration.

... From what I am reading within the conversations above, Mr. Ryudo, I do not believe you are being entirely honest. With yourself, in the least.

How, how do you mean, Marquise?

Had you not desired to sleep with these individuals, presence of your close associate aside, you would not have made such an entry.

Placing the blame entirely upon them and their carnal interests dishonors both you and their own selves. While I cannot speak for the supposed scientist, I know there are plenty of those whom Tyki flirts with, yet few who maintain the interest to agree to such advances. My husband teases, and perhaps pushes past many people's personal boundaries, yet he never knowingly forces an individual into an intimate situation against their will.

Not admitting your own interest - blaming entirely their persistence without mentioning even your unconscious encouragement - is extremely dishonest.

And I would well guess you haven't even allowed yourself to realize the extent of your desire.

They are attractive men. But that's all. I'd like to spend time with them and enjoy ourselves, but it doesn't bother me that Haruto says no.

Is it truly so difficult to say "I would enjoy sleeping with them, yet your feelings and considerations are far more important to me?"

In addition, know this would be followed by an apology that you would merely assume he would be as willing to share himself as you would be.

I'll do that. Thank you very much.

In addition, I would suggest a rather lengthy and doubtlessly uncomfortable conversation about the exclusiveness of your relationship, or lack thereof, is in order shortly.

I've always been loyal to him. I'm sure he knows that.

Loyalty does not imply exclusivity. As you well might realize. However, being so ingrained into the minds of many, he might believe you are disloyal merely due to your desires.

As foolish as such a presumption is, you will still need to dissuade him from it.

I will do so at the soonest available opportunity.

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